Yesterday, I decided it was time for a little bit of variety. I laid a cloth on the table with matching napkins, unpacked the silverware, poured our drinks into wine glasses {including Max....seriously!}, lit candles, put on some soft music and then spent half an hour explaining to Max the severity of my actions if he caused his usual havoc @ the dinner table. Tersh arrived for supper & stood there speechless...along with Max, just staring. To cut a potentially very long winded story short......supper was a roaring success. Max sat quietly & drank like a big boy from his wine glass, Tersh & I chatted & ate supper as if we were somewhere special, the world went on hold & it felt good! My husband was so touched by the small sentiment that I have realised sometimes it is worth just a small about of effort to make him feel appreciated, loved & valued for all his hard work.



Try it & be rewarded with the sparkle of candle light in the eyes of your 3yrs old trusted with a a big person's glass :o)
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P.S For all those who are regular readers of my blog, I would love to send you a little something from Canada. Please can you mail me your postal addresses. For those who don't have my email address, you can use my www.kjstarre@gmail.com account. Thanx
good on you Kim!! You are so right, sometimes the littlest things make the biggest impact. Luverly post.
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I have done it too, but not that often, however we have (finally) reached the time in our family life that we can all eat out at a restaurant in a reasonably adult manner. Who would have thought it possible even 7 years ago?
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what a beautiful table! How cute is max with that glass!!!
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